January 10, 2017
Families in search of a great movie with a message don’t have to look much further than one of the latest Pixar movies, “Finding Dorie”. This sequel to the beloved “Finding Nemo” has Dory on the search for her family, and along the way she not only learns what family really means, but learns about forgiving others, and most of all, forgiving herself. You’ll laugh, you will cry, but share it with your family for some great conversations. Some of the greatest scenes are with Dorie and her personal revelations. Of course, first, she learns that even though she does not know her parents, she is not without a family. Her friends, Marvin and Nemo, are her family and she is now their neighbor. They watch out for her, and even though sometimes get very frustrated, they are always on her side. But the best moment for me came when (SPOILER ALERT) she is finally reunited with her parents, and she apologizes to them for getting lost. She believes it is her fault, for wandering too far away, and that all the pain of separation was on her shoulders. But she is received with love. Their reunion is so beautifully scripted, I couldn’t stop crying!
This movie is great viewing for children, teens, adults, and entire families. The jokes and themes are cross generational: we are all one family, and no matter what, we are loved. I absolutely will be watching this one over and over!
THE RED TENT
And if you are looking for something you can enjoy on those cold nights with a nice cup of coffee, reach for “The Red Tent”, by Anita Diamont. This historical fiction novel is great, especially for women of any age, telling the story of Dinah, the young daughter of Jacob, sister of Joseph of the colored coat. Her journey from the only daughter of a great family, to a midwife who outlives her husband and son, is inspirational and enjoyable. The focus during the book is on Dinah and the women in her life who teach her, her mother Leah, her aunt Rebecca, and the two slaves who were also married to her father. The four women have very different personalities and very different roles in life with their husband, Jacob. But above all, they treasure their time in the red tent, the week where they are at rest and can stay inside. They tell Dinah the stories of generations past, because it is through the daughters that the stories of women are kept in memory.
Especially interesting for me was when certain parts of the biblical story were interwoven into this book: when Joseph is given up, when Jacob’s sons attack the man they believed raped Dinah, and the death of her mother. I enjoyed seeing a portrayal of women in this time of history.
For those interested, a movie was made from the book, available on DVD for purchase through Amazon. The movie is also in our Diocesan Media Center, available for check out.
Til next time!
I have long wanted to write on this great Disney Channel series, but never imagined i would be writing after watching the series finale. Yes, at the end of season three, this wonderful show has been cancelled.
When the show first started, it was known as a sequel to the long loved “Boy Meets World,” which starred Ben Savage as the “Boy”, Cory Mathews who is coming of age and, along with his best friend, the practically orphaned and lost Shawn Hunter, is discovering his relationship with the world. Guided by his parents, their teacher Mr Feeney, and his super intellegent girlfriend Topanga, they have adventures, learn lessons, and grow up to be wonderful, kind and good natured adults.
And so “Girl Meets World” begins, with Cory and Topanga now married and living in New York. They have two children, Riley, who is the “Girl” and Augie. Riley has her own almost orphaned best friend, Maya, and attends school with a great teacher..her father, Cory.
Cory has the ability to guide his daughter and her friends as they pass from seventh through ninth grade, even following her to high school, as the wise teacher. Every lesson he teaches relates to what is going on in their lives, but he allows them the ability to figure it all out for themselves.
The problems they encounter are timely and cross generational. The most heart-wrenching one was called The Forgiveness Project. The students are told to write a letter to someone, forgiving them for something. Most write letters of a superficial nature: Riley’s letter is to her little brother, forgiving him for something even though he never apologized. In fact, upon reading the letter, is confused, as he explains to Riley, because he wasn’t sorry. He had a good reason; Riley never asked why. When she does, she learns something about her brother that she never knew, and ends up asking for forgiveness herself.
But the most poignant was Maya's letter, written to her father, who left when she was young and never looked back. For many years she thought her mother had chased him away but earlier had learned that he left without explanation. He now has a new family and a new life without making contact. After receiving her letter asking why she wasn’t good enough to be his daughter, he arrives to explain to her that he didn’t feel he was good enough to be her father, and had to leave to change and grow. She understands, but still cannot forgive him. She goes back to her teacher, Cory, to explain that she failed the assignment because she cannot forgive him. He simply asks, “But did you forgive yourself?” With that, she bursts into tears, and we see the true lesson.
There are many other episodes I could list as great ones, such as the episode where quirky Riley is bullied by someone who takes video of her doing something wierd and threatens to show it to the whole school. In a previous episode, their friend Farkle had been bullied and all the friends rallied around him and stood up to his bully. But somehow Riley is to embarrassed to tell even her best friend about her own bully. When they find out, she asks them to allow her to handle it her own way, and handle it she does, with grace, dignity, and her own quirky touch.
One of the best parts of this show for us adults is the return of many characters from the previous series. Unlike other sequels where the characters move forward in life without looking back, this show is based much on what Cory learned from his family and teacher, and they are still a part of his life, especially his best friend, Shawn. In the finale, when the family has a huge decision to make, everyone rallies around them and comes to give their help and counsel. Not just a reunion for a last episode, but each contributing to the storyline, teaching us the lesson once again that our support, our comfort, our blessing is our family and friends.
Thank you, writers, producers, directors, and especially the actors who brought these characters to life. They certainly made an impression on my life.